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On Sexual Trauma, Relationships, and Moving Forward

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The day after I moved to D.C., I attended a community event. I was a little early, having not figured out that Google Maps tends to over-estimate the amount of time it will take on the Metro to get somewhere (!!). Someone else had checked in for the event. I "Salaamed" them, we introduced ourselves, and I wandered into the bookstore section to browse while I waited.

The guy I had introduced myself to told me he needed to use the bathroom and would be back (too much information, I thought to myself). He then approached me and started to chat (something about being on someone's campaign team, blah blah blah), not noticing that I was more interested in the books than what was spewing out of his mouth - which was a lot of self-endorsement. I then tried the "let me grab my phone" tactic to send him another hint since my short answers and flat affect weren't doing the trick. But he still hung around, even looking at my phone and commenting "oh, wow, you'…